Topic started by gilma (@ 203.197.146.120) on Fri May 17 02:09:15 .
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I ahve seen many actresses giving some strange difference between glamour and vulgarity.

Is the song kattipudi da glamourous or vulgar?
is the song sattukudu sattuduku (manathai thiriduvittai) vulgar or glamorous?

and heroines think that this is what people like and thats why they be glamourous and vulgar..

I have to ask this to the guys.. HEY GUYS!

WHAT ARE YOUR EXPECTATIONS FROM AN ACTRESS?

SHOULD SHE POSE N U DE IN FRONT OF YOUR EYES, OR SHOULD SHE PORTHIFY HERSELF IN A SARREE..

WOULD YOU GUYS EVER MARRY A GLAMOUROUS GIRL.. OR AN ADAKKUM ODUKKAM GIRL?

YOU GUYS ARE REAL HYPOCRITES!

Responses:

• From: poor guy (@ dialup-209.245.118.191.dial1.weehawken1.level3.net) on: Mon May 20 16:13:12
  
  dear gilma
  
  thats how thw world is
  men want other women to be nude in front of them
  but their wives could not show a small part of their body
  thats how society works
  i would marry only an adakkam odukkam girl
  but i dont think there are any more left in the world
  so i am going to remain unmarried
  
  
• From: Sweetie (@ webcacheh04a.cache.pol.co.uk) on: Mon May 20 17:35:37
  
  Ur wrong there poor guy. There are, hard as it may be to believe, quite a few adakkum odukkam girls still out. U just gotta keep ur eyes peeled. I know how u feel. Guys can such hypocrites. It's ok for them to sleep around but when a girl starts doing it, there's all this outcry.
  Anywayz, who came up with the idea that sarees aren't glamorous? I'm not sure I agree there!
  
  
• From: visu (@ 202.9.183.149) on: Mon May 20 23:53:42
  
  vulgarity- showing full kindling fire imm
  glamour- partly full, partly unnoticeable, rekindle fire but u should imagine the balance
  
  ps
  u cant see many actresess without makeup.
  
  
• From: visu (@ 202.9.183.161) on: Tue May 21 00:26:30
  
  glamour and vulgar varies to person to person depending on the person him/herself
  
  1.n-ude artist may see it as glamour, others ->vulgar
  2. if tamilians see keralite woman with mundu it looks both glamour and/ r vulgar, kerailtes wont bother at all
  
  anyway manymen see woman after undressing them in mind. (i said many)
  
  
• From: dR. SURESH GOVIN (@ 203.106.139.243) on: Tue May 21 00:36:31
  
  MOST OF U ARE WRONG. I MARRIED A GLAMOUROUS GAL. SHE'S FAIR, SEDUCTIVE , SEXY, SLIM AND ANY MAN WOULD JOLLU OVER HER . I FEEL HAPPY THAT SHE IS THAT ATTRACTIVE AND OTHER MEN DROOL OVER HER. I KNOW SHE LOVES ME A GREAT DEAL AND IF SHE IS PRETTY, WHY NOT OTHERS ENJOY HER BEAUTY AS WELL?
  
  AS FAr AS SHE IS LOYAL TO ME, THATS ENOUGH. I TRUST HER AND SHE TRUSTS ME.
  
  INCIDENTALLY SHE WAS A EX AIR HOSTESS.
  
  
• From: stg (@ 12.151.162.48) on: Tue May 21 05:38:27
  
  This is a very tricky question and I am sure no one can answer this as no objective standards can be drawn whatever sushma or the supreme court judges may say. You can say glamorous is acting to enhance beauty and vulgar is to act to demean and degrade beauty and grace. Once again this is subjective. We all have an implicit awareness of things like beauty, glamor and vulgarity but you cannot objectively & explicity define those. Most actress are not adpet at expressing opinons and issues - of course they are good at exposing.
  
  
• From: visu (@ 202.9.183.178) on: Tue May 21 06:52:48
  
  dr,
  be careful, let ex airhostess not bcome exwife
  
  i envy u, i cant have mentality like u
  
  
• From: chiyan (@ 210.186.89.216) on: Tue May 21 13:24:06
  
  the best definition is simran is glamour[in the movie vaali].kate winslet vulgar[in the movie
  titanic]gilma watch out this two movies to know the answer
  
  
• From: Shakhuni (@ 203.197.148.122) on: Thu May 30 05:01:23
  
  Glamour : It is divine. That which is present in almost every living being on this earth. Some people say it "The art of being glamourous" and so it is.
  
  Vulgar : Certain helpless and not fully matured souls dedicate themselves in creating new terms that may look enjoyable for them but may hurt others in many ways. For, example, while young guys use the most common PREFIX (Chennai basha, starts with 'Ot' and ends with 'A') it may sound casual for him/her, but it is like pelting a stone onto their reputations and may end up badly hurt. Vulgarity is completely artificial and can be easily avoided , but Glamour always coexists with life. There is not single or unique meaning for Glamour. It varies with the place and time.
  
  
• From: Shakhuni (@ 203.197.148.122) on: Thu May 30 05:12:39
  
  IN RESPONSE TO : MESSAGE POSTED BY POOR GUY.
  From: poor guy (@ dialup-209.245.118.191.dial1.weehawken1.level3.net) on: Mon May 20 16:13:12
  
  
  dear gilma
  
  thats how thw world is
  men want other women to be nude in front of them
  but their wives could not show a small part of their body
  thats how society works
  i would marry only an adakkam odukkam girl
  but i dont think there are any more left in the world
  so i am going to remain unmarried
  
  
  -------------------------------
  
  This is my response..
  
  Poor guy, i appreciate ur attitude that u wnated to get married to someone who has all basic and default qualities like u have mentioned. But, one must never forget "Nee kaanbadhu lagam alla, unnudaya sahaptham mattume.. Nee ariyadhavay pala kodi, sila muraye thudikkum un naadi" . Nee paartha varai, pengal ellam ozhukkam atravargal endru solgiraye..naanum unnai idhuvarai paarthadhillai, appadi endraal, neeyum ozhukkam atravano? "Oru paanai sothukku oru soru padham enbadhu poi, appadiyendraal, un pasikku oru parukkai soru irundhaal podhume, edharkaaga palavagai, palavidha saapaadu ungiraai?"..
  
  "EVERYTHING IS WELL IN THE END. IF ITS NOT FINE, THEN IT IS NOT THE END"
  Try hard till u get it. Dont give up.
  
  
• From: Shakhuni (@ 203.197.148.122) on: Thu May 30 05:26:51
  
  Glamour doesn't have a domain or a boundary. It has an infinite stretch of scope. I do not understand why many of u relate Glamour with females alone? There r so many living beings on this earth and allmost every species has the 2 fundamental sex (male and female). Does that mean, HUMAN male admires a female DOG for it doesn't wear any clothings? Will that sound sensible? See, Glamour is not in what is seen, but in how u see. The sky has got glamour, the landscapes existing on this earth has glamour, and even a tiny beetle has some sort of glamour in its appearance. So, dont diminish the scope of Glamour around females alone. Dont forget, that one of a Miss Universe contestant once mentioned that "Mother Teressa is the most glamorous of all" .
  
  
• From: Raji (@ cache1.syd.ops.aspac.uu.net) on: Thu May 30 21:05:11
  
  Beauty depends on the eye of the beholder-X said.
  Virtue is an angel-X said.
  Beauty is the bilayer thickness of skin-X said.
  Neither all the girls nor boys are perfect. Why can't we expect guys to be adakka Oddukkam. All what we perceive. If someone becomes narrow minded then his/her life would be miserable. If everyone thinks that their wives are the most beautiful women in earth then all are nice. Glamour/Vulgar doesn't mingle with personal life.Most of the people they don't get a chance to see nice girls. Because if the think girls are bad then they try to see those kind of girls. Change the vision.
  NB- My name still RAji.But I am a guy. Because I couldn't use RAj as someone exists inthis name here.
  
  
• From: jiji (@ 203.199.231.37) on: Tue Jun 4 13:51:43
  
  to make love is glamour and to f uck is vulgar
  
  
• From: gilma (@ 203.197.142.194) on: Sat Jun 8 05:42:26
  
  thanks for the response guys...
  
  
  

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