Topic started by Sanjev (@ its-wn-prox3.its.rmit.edu.au) on Tue Oct 9 23:39:01 .
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What do you feel about love at first sight? Have you had any experience with this? Many of you Guys might have experienced
this...(I might be wrong)...is it only just good for films?...what about all of you girls out there? Have ever fallen love with
someone at the first sight? Is this love? or is it something else? I don't know how you can fall in love at the first sight!!!
Responses:
From: saitan-sallahuddin-abdul-aziz-shah (@ ptl-cache6.jaring.my) on: Fri Mar 16 04:25:02
love at first sight? ..... hmmmmm i think most of it is lust at first sight .... saitan not excluded too
From: obili (@ 203.199.220.125) on: Fri Mar 16 07:48:37
Saitan..ur 100% correct..
From: Sona (@ 02-184.045.popsite.net) on: Mon Mar 19 16:16:19
Love at first site is more for guys than girls( i don't believe in it that much just a bit)
From: G???? (@ ssf077a.dhl.com) on: Mon Mar 19 19:28:46
YA...AGREE WITH YOU GUYS....ANYWAY? HOW DOES THIS THING WORKS????
From: amesha (@ bkj-cache81.jaring.my) on: Mon Mar 19 19:56:50
I dont believe in this kind of love...How can u love a person without knowing anything...may be he/she already married...
From: UNGAL KATHALAN (@ bkj-cache81.jaring.my) on: Mon Mar 19 23:02:37
MUTHAL MUTHALIL PARTHEN KHATAL VANTHATHEY ENNAI MARANTHE ENNOH ENNAM
THONDRATHEY UNNIL ENDRE NANEH ILLAI KHATAL ENDRE ETHUM ILLAI ENGEY ENTHAN
ITHAYAM ANBEY UNNIL ULLATHA......
ETHEKE MELAI VERA ENNA SOLLA MUDIYUM!
From: obili (@ 203.199.224.102) on: Tue Mar 20 03:35:08
Itthuku mela ungaloda real experience & openion solla mudiyum..
Cinima hero pattu padittu suiting mutichitu ootuku poiduvar.. apparam mucha love a yaru pannarathu??
From: Sanjev (@ melcache01.powertel.net.au) on: Thu Mar 22 03:28:37
Do you believe in life after life? If so, isn't it possible to meet someone that you loved in the previous life...your sweet
heart. Ofcourse you won't know that this person was your sweetheart. But the old magic between you and that person
might make you fall in love again, with the first sight of them in this life. Don't you think?
Very interesting isn't it?
From: Lover (@ its-wn-prox3.its.rmit.edu.au) on: Tue Mar 27 21:45:02
That's a good one. I never thought of that before.
That probably explains why I fell in love with this girl at the first sight.
From: RATHEY (@ isdn-brf-87-22.tm.net.my) on: Thu Mar 29 05:06:56
LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT...OH..MY GOD..EVEN EDUCATED PEOPLE TRUST THIS NONSENSE...LEMME
TELL YOU SOMETHIN..THESE KIND OF LOVE IS BASED ON A PERSONS LOOK..TRUE LOVE
DOESN'T EXIST IN THESE KIND OF LOVE...IF IT DOES..IT WON'T LAST LONG..YOU CAN SEE THESE
KIND OF LOVE IN MOVIES..AANA INTHE MAATIRI KAATHAL NIJE LIFE-KKU OTTU VARATHU..
From: g???? (@ ssf079c.dhl.com) on: Thu Mar 29 19:43:10
love? lovve panne tonnelaiye!!! no.no..no.no..no..no..no..no..
From: Tamil Babe (@ rn251-65.resnet.uoguelph.ca) on: Fri Mar 30 14:40:54
There is no such thing as LOVE at first sight. It is all just lust or a crush.
From: RATHEY (@ 203.106.133.238) on: Wed Apr 4 01:09:29
YEH...YOU ARE RIGHT...TAMIL BABE!
From: Sanjev (@ melcache01.powertel.net.au) on: Wed Apr 4 04:51:12
Hi Tamilbabe, (and the others also) How can you just make a statement that this is lust. You are actually assuming that
this is lust. Have you experienced love? You see love is got something to do with trust. When you love someone, you are
actually trusting someone to look after you for the rest of your life. You are trusting someone and giving them yourself.
Daily life we do Ocasionally trust people who we never seen before. Like a taxi driver. You are trusting him of safely
getting you home without getting in to an accident. Your 'uyir' is at someone's driving skill. And that someone is a
stranger.
If you are prepared to trust someone who you never met before with your 'uyir', Why can't someone trust another with
their life at the first sight.Therefore I don't see why there can't be a love at first sight.
From: Paandian (@ 202.75.128.43) on: Wed Apr 4 04:59:16
Anyone wanna try it out? Mail me me! we will meet!
**winks*
From: Lover (@ its-wn-prox2.its.rmit.edu.au) on: Sun Apr 8 20:32:18
sanjev...I'll give you my GF's mail address could you please explain this to her. You seem to have good explanations.
(She doesn't want to accept me).
From: RATHEY (@ 203.106.160.101) on: Wed Apr 11 03:11:16
PANDIAN SAR...YEN SAR INTHE VISHA PARICCEI? PONGGE SAR...VEETUKKU POI ..AMMAVUKKU
NALLE PILLAYA IRUNGGE...PONNUNGGALE BAYAMURUTTAATEENGGE...
From: Sonia (@ solar.zapsurf.com.sg) on: Wed Apr 11 04:53:10
hats off to u sanjev!!!!
From: Sanjev (@ melcache01.powertel.net.au) on: Wed Apr 11 06:43:10
"Sonia"...is that a sarcastic comment. If not then thank you.
"Lover" I cann't help you much. You just have to show her how much you love her...make sure you don't trouble her
alot. Give her some breathing space.
From: Reggaeman (@ proxyc4.starhub.net.sg) on: Wed Apr 11 21:30:49
Paandian saar, ungge mel yanakku oru cinna kaadhal saar!!! Paandi papa...awwwww
From: Sonia (@ star.zapsurf.com.sg) on: Wed Apr 11 22:17:11
really Sanjev,
i really admire ur view of "love at first sight".
From: lovely (@ cacheflow.umbc.edu) on: Sun Apr 15 17:23:45
Hi sanjev,
Ur explanation for love was marvellous but, i have a something to say, when u get on a taxi with a stranger u know
already know that he is licensed to drive, if he is licensed he obviously knows how to drive. And the driver will be more
carefully about not getting himself and his vehicle hurt, i dont think personally he will care about the passenger. Same
goes with the passenger to the driver.
Let me tell u another strange thing, i have had my love at first sight 6 months ago. U know its so funny when we both act
weirdly around each other, he gets all concious when i am around him, and i get very nervous. We both try to impress
each other and we absolutely adore one another. I love him so much that i trust him with my life, so does he.
What i am trying to say is that ur thought about love at first sight was great but, the way u put it with an example of taxi
driver was a bit not sticking with the topic. Anyway, hope to get a response from u soon.
From: lovely (@ cacheflow.umbc.edu) on: Sun Apr 15 17:54:45
Hi sanjev,
Ur view was marvellous but, i have something to tell u. When ur going to take a ride on the taxi, u already subconciously
know that the driver is licenced, if he is licensed to drive then obviously, he knows how to drive and the ohter thing is,
there is no personal interconnect here, the driver will be more caucious about driving safely b/c if an accident occurs he
doesn't want to get hurt with his vehicle. And i am sure the passenger knows this and that is why he/she is risking their
lives to ride on the taxi. It has nothing to do with trust here, it is some what connected with the drivers responsibility of be
safe on road, the passengers responsibility to be be just riding on it for the fair they owe for the ride.
Ur thought was good and very nice but, the way u addressed it was not that acceptable for me. Didn't mean to hurt u in
anyway, if it will make u feel any much better i would like to tell u that, my sister and best friend had love at first sight,
and guess what it really worked and i believe in it b/c it is evident for me. Hope to hear an response from u.
From: lovely (@ cacheflow.umbc.edu) on: Sun Apr 15 17:57:46
hey, i missed my luv, i had love at first sight too.
From: Sanjev (@ melcache01.powertel.net.au) on: Sun Apr 15 18:41:27
I don't know what kind of Taxis you have in mind "Lovely". I was talking about those three wheelers. (Runs in sri lanka
and India).
Half of the people who drive those are very reckless. Some of them are half drunk. They just get in between cars and
buses, if they see a little gap. It's very scary getting in one of them. But we still get in and just trust them. That's just the
point I was trying to make.
"taxi driver was a bit not sticking with the topic". I thought it was okay. But you could be right.
Have you told each other your love? If so congrats. You can prove those people who put down "Love at first sight".
From: Ganesh (@ 192.237.114.65) on: Mon Apr 16 10:08:31
Then why don't we WALK???
From: lovely (@ 204.153.77.140) on: Tue Apr 17 13:23:55
Hi,
Thanks for the response, and no i haven't told him yet. I dont know why this happened i was planning telling him
yesterday after class but, a couple my friends grabbed me and told me that he is married. Isn't it funny, so much for my
love at first sight, and i thought he loved me. They told me that they are not sure if he is married or not but, the
possibilities are a lot. I dont know for this movement, i was 100% sure taht he liked me from the way he looked at me,
i'm sure that my judgement is not wrong. So far, i dont know what to do!!!!!
From: mie (@ bkj-cache83.jaring.my) on: Fri Apr 20 02:05:33
love at first sight is not true it is just infectuatuin. Just like love on internet. Anyone believe?
From: Ganesh (@ 192.237.114.65) on: Fri Apr 20 08:54:24
Mie,
Your name sounds like my pet... Anyway what is the meaning of "infectuatuin"?. Without any prior experience, how can
you justify "internet love"?.
From: mie (@ bkj-cache83.jaring.my) on: Sun Apr 22 22:11:10
Ganesh..sorry for the wrong spelling infectuation. Well internet love...I have seen many people...just falling in love over
the internet and all...I have friends who were involved in the so called internet love and did not suceed.I am not tellin all
of then just 90 percent ofd them..Plaese don't go for love at first sight,..Learn the persons character before falling in
love....Girls..beware...
From: stg (@ st54.aramco.com.sa) on: Mon Apr 23 03:31:40
Love at first sight is just nonsense.. ok whats love.. some say its understanding.. what can u understand at a glance or
even a stare?
Love Its a nice feeling? what can u feel by a glance? you can be fascinated by looks, attire, physique etc.. but thats not
love. Love means intimacy, recognition values. Love is the consequence and expression of admiration. You cannot have
this by sight, glance or staring. Love comed after knowing each other and depending on what you value and IF you find
it with the other person love blossom.. else its just a fad.
From: Ganesh (@ 192.237.114.65) on: Mon Apr 23 09:16:43
Mie, then... I would like to be within that 10% and I'm... yes I WILL...
From: Sonia (@ star.zapsurf.com.sg) on: Tue Apr 24 22:14:12
i really believe in love at first sight.
may be,it had not worked out for some but in my case, it did turn out great.
now, i believe that love at first sight is 100% great.
From: mie (@ bkj-cache84.jaring.my) on: Thu Apr 26 01:55:39
Ganesh...it is a good thing that you are among the 10%..It is really nice to know but just a small advise...Never play
truant with your loved ones okay..All the best Ganesh......may you find a nice gal.
From: Reggaeman (@ proxyc4.starhub.net.sg) on: Thu Apr 26 02:54:10
Dear Ganesh,
My neighbour is a 89 year old lady and she looking for a groom. Would you be kind enough to be her husband?
Thank You
From: Reggaeman (@ proxyc4.starhub.net.sg) on: Thu Apr 26 02:54:21
Dear Ganesh,
My neighbour is a 89 year old lady and she is looking for a groom. Would you be kind enough to be her husband?
Thank You
From: Ganesh (@ 192.237.114.65) on: Thu Apr 26 09:13:31
Reggaeman,
I think you are insulting me... Why are you doing double MA job?. Are you in Mumbay rightnow?. My suggestion -
Instead of finding a husband for her, why don't you find a graveyard?.
From: Ganesh (@ 192.237.114.65) on: Thu Apr 26 09:22:31
Mie,
First of all thanks a lot to you. And yes, I'm serious , I'm not truanting... I already found my girlfriend (internet). It was an
incident. But we know what we are doing... We plan to meet in late this year. Our parents too know about this... And,
most importantly we are not teens...We respect each other...
Thanks
From: mie (@ bkj-cache84.jaring.my) on: Thu Apr 26 21:10:36
yes..that is correct Ganesh. If you meet a gal ,then it is proper for you to tel her parents as well as yours if you don't then
they will say that internet has influenced you. So tell me soon when you ar4e going to get married okay??? Congrats and
all the best!
From: mie (@ bkj-cache84.jaring.my) on: Thu Apr 26 21:13:10
Raggaeman, why you say like that? Fifty years or what is still not too late for love. You if you want to match make a
person..see the age and proper person or else both party will suffer. Anyway To love or not to love is the person's right
we cannot decide Correct or not?
From: alagane ratchasi (@ 202.188.211.169) on: Fri Apr 27 01:37:18
Love at first sight is not about physical appearance... Your eyes is the door to ur soul... Therefore, it is the meeting of the
soul and not mere looks.. :)
From: Ganesh (@ 192.237.114.65) on: Fri Apr 27 11:14:07
exactly alagane ratchasi...
From: Ganesh (@ 192.237.114.65) on: Fri Apr 27 11:15:54
mie,
Thanks again. Most probebly I'll be in Malaysia somewhere around this year-end.
From: Sanjev (@ its-wn-prox2.its.rmit.edu.au) on: Sun May 6 20:16:47
is mie a woman?
Tell your friend about this topic